Customer Reviews
A great experience of the jouney of manhood - By: An Xie, 10 Jan 2008 
I found its extremely helpful in terms of the concept of magnifying oneself's core desire & deep purpose. I believe thats the core thing for a man to deal with whatever his work or women. some people may find the author's wording a bit exaggerated, & some techniques could be suspected, but i recon that techniques cannot be aligned with the core information the author trying to communicate. For example, a man who s reallly good at chatting up women might have a lot of techniques to use when he meets a woman he s attracted to, but in the deep level his success with women is not due to his techniques reallly great, its because the person he is being. Someone may copy his technique & it might work, but he cannot success alll day long because the person he is being. So it is as the world at large. Whatever we do, focus on techniques maybe helpful for a moment, it wont improve the core being which is on the deeper level; but improve the core being will guarantee that u will create ur own style of techniques.
Some great chapters others not so much... - By: E. Chukweze, 26 Nov 2007 
If you haven't read any other books about being `alpha' or don't know of women(!), then this is a good book to begin your journey with, otherwise there is nothing new here.
The best thing about this book is how easy it is to read, short & punchy chapters. I particularly like the practical advice he gives about the body - control, breathing etc... The language is rousing & memorable; it makes it easy recalll parts of the book when you need it.
The book starts at a tremendous pace & almost takes your breath away but then begins to ramble a bit.
Honestly a chapter callled "What she says isn't what she means"(!) - hence my comment about not knowing 'of' women. The book could have been shorter.
If you are a young man this might not be the best book for you, the book makes too many assumptions & it is definitely for the grown & serious.
Good and bad - By: Mr. P. P. Jones, 28 Jun 2007 I found the language of this book to be quite over the top. I did not like his view on courting relationships. I laughed when I read that you should ask your friends to ask her's if she reallly likes you. You should be able to work it out for yourself. Most of his advice is with regard to matured relationships. I enjoyed his explanation of being on your own path & some over chapters on masculinity. The aurther' explanation on how to deal with your women & your emotions if she sleeps with another man or disrespects you publicly made me cringe.
I think that a lot of the praise for this book is relative to what is out there in other `self help' books on relationships. I think that one should read this book with a pinch of salt. The Book will make you think at least.
Unique Take on How to Relate - By: Contributor, 08 Feb 2007 Amazing perspective, difficult to find. I finallly read it (so many friends already had & recommended it). I found it highly useful. Does not pander to women like Venus & Mars - much more "down to earth" & male targeted - yet women seem to find it insightful too. You dont usuallly get this info from your buddies or the women in your life - but once you learn it they can alll benefit from what you can share. Take your game to the next level. Very liberating read. I am surprised there are so few reviews - this is a hidden gem - straight forward, easy to absorb & unpretentious!!! Enjoy the book, your relationships & your life purpose man.
Excellent advice for men - By: Mike, 24 Oct 2006 
Deida is a great writer on masculine issues. This book covers a range of practical & spiritual topics about what it means to be a man, expeciallly in relation to your woman.
Short chapters, good sound practical advice & easily accessible language make this a great "Guide to Being a Better Bloke". Some of the language is a bit California psych for my taste, but don't let that put you off.....read & learn!
