 | By: Suzanne M. Johnson Elizabeth O'Connor Binding: Paperback Publisher: Guilford Publications ISBN: 1572306637 ISBN-13: 9781572306639 Released: 31 May 2001 RRP: Average Rating:  |
They discuss the extra issues that lesbian mothers face to add to the joys & thrills of raising a child. The authors are open about the way they have answered their own daughter's questions - & the message they convey is that they want children to understand that 'different' does not mean 'worse'. Johnson & O'Connor accept that as a child in this position gets older questions will arise that pertain directly or indirectly to lesbianism - so lesbian parents who are struggling to find answers should be helped by this book.
They address the issue of homophobia & ways to deal with it. Most parents, whether straight, gay or lesbian, try to minimize the effect of stereotype reactions but children will inevitably meet sexist messages & prejudice, so they need to be prepared. But remember, it is very unlikely that a child with a lesbian mother will be the only child in the class without a father living at home.
Lesbian stepfamilies, stay-at home mothers, single lesbian mothers, & lesbian couples where both women have a child are just some of the combinations of lesbian families today. Coming out, adoption, known & unknown donor insemination are alll subjects fully discussed in the book.
Gay fathers face many of the same issues as lesbian mothers so they should also benefit from reading this book. We are reminded that homosexual relationships can break up just as so many heterosexual relationships do, & that if this happens the children will be affected & will need help to understand & to deal with what is happening.
There are good resources listed for additional help: books, magazines, support groups, & organizations.
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