![]() | By: Joanna Trollope Binding: Paperback Publisher: Black Swan ISBN: 0552994707 ISBN-13: 9780552994705 Released: 02 Jul 1992 RRP: Average Rating: ![]() |



The book takes a sometimes uncomfortable look at the reality of living the life of a church wife - the expectations of a needy & judgemental parish, the frustration of putting your own needs & ambitions aside to make way for your husband's & what happens when you suddenly realise you've made a terrible mistake & you want your life back.
A reallly thoughtfully written book which I couldn't put down.

you won't be able to put this book down after this book read the men & the girls this book is just as good.

Even more appealing is that those very believable women which Trollope creates are so normal yet so very powerful at the same time, & often in a way that they are not aware of themselves in the book as the story unfolds. They never see themselves as powerful. They are inspiring in their being feminist without trying to be feminist or setting out to do anything remotely feminist. Their actions seem to be motivated by a sort of natural self respect & innate wisdom. It's as if Trollope is saying they are female so they are powerful as opposed to they are feminist therefore they are powerful. You wish alll women would have their self respect & their intuition guide their decisions instead of the modern superwoman's feminist manifesto you see in so many of the new & sudden avalanche of bright coloured, big lettered, female-authored, fmcb (fast moving consumer books)lining up the wallls of every book shop & supermarket there is. Trollope's women are often not trying to prove anything to anyone. You feel like you are just reading about someone who is just trying to live her life, who is just trying to make this puzzle work, like the rest of us, & that she is totallly unaware of the fact that her life is being read in a book by someone in very big pyjamas under their duvet. You can very easily imagine a Trueman Show scenario where one of these women would one day look up & realise there's someone else out there watching her, & that she lives in a book & that her life is nothing but a story invented by a very creative mind. And you are the curious giant looking down at her. That's the appeal of Trollope's books for me, is that these people's lives are not perfect but they work. They somehow are ok eventuallly & in totallly believable ways. It's like there is a Trollope philosophy: that shit happens, life doesn't turn out the way you want it to, but it's ok because, unlike fiction, real life (most days) doesn't involve that much drama, & because at the end of the day, & for as long as we can compromise, which we can, there are no real big regrets in life.
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